The Masks We Wear: Reflections for Halloween

Every Halloween, we see children donning costumes, transforming themselves into superheroes, creatures, and even villains for just one night. There is magic in the way they embrace their new personas, running around as someone—or something—else, fully immersed in their pretend worlds. But as adults, do we ever truly take our masks off? Do we live in a world where we are always performing, putting on a face for each role, each situation? Halloween got me thinking: How many invisible masks do we wear every day, disguising parts of who we really are? We may not be dressing up as superheroes, but we are still becoming someone else, hiding behind the masks we think will make us more likable, safer, or more successful. The question is, why do we do it? Who are we really putting these masks on for?
For many of us, masks are about protection. We might feel that revealing too much of our true selves would be risky. Vulnerability can be frightening, and we may worry that letting down our guard will open us up to hurt, misunderstanding, or rejection. In a way, these masks act as armour, keeping the more sensitive parts of ourselves safe. We might put on a tough front to avoid showing our insecurities or pretend we are unbothered by something to avoid conflict. But the irony is that the more masks we wear, the further we distance ourselves from real connection, from the chance to be seen and accepted as we are.
Then there is the question of social expectations. How often do we wear masks to meet the demands of others or to fit the roles we feel are assigned to us? We may be one version of ourselves at work, another with friends, and yet another with family. We present the traits we believe people expect to see: strength, cheerfulness, competence, even silence. We may even become so adept at these roles that it is easy to forget who we truly are underneath. But when we adapt so much for others, we are not only sacrificing authenticity, we are also building walls around ourselves, layer by layer.
Sometimes, though, it is our own fear that keeps us from dropping the masks. We wonder if people would still accept or respect us if they saw the real us. What if they knew about our anxieties, our imperfections, or the dreams we are too embarrassed to admit? It can be intimidating to imagine revelling our true selves and trusting that we will be loved or accepted despite it all. So we stick to what is comfortable, hiding behind the masks that have, in some ways, become second nature. But here is a thought: What if taking off those masks was not as scary as we imagined? What if, by being true to ourselves, we actually found a new kind of courage, and with it, a sense of peace?
It might not be easy, but maybe there is freedom in dropping the act, at least with the people closest to us. To let them see the whole person—our fears, our dreams, our quirks—might be the most liberating thing we can do. It is a chance to discover that, beneath it all, we are enough just as we are.
So as Halloween approaches, maybe it is a good time to reflect on the invisible masks we wear every day. As we watch kids reviling in their make-believe, maybe we can ask ourselves if there is a mask we are ready to put down. Because who knows? The person we are underneath might not be so scary after all.

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